Court-ordered parenting plans are meant to provide stability and work for the long haul, but life rarely stays the same. New developments can throw off a parenting time arrangement that once made perfect sense. Fortunately, Illinois law allows you to seek adjustments...
Divorce
The mental impact of divorce on older adults in Illinois
Divorce at any stage of life presents emotional challenges. However, for older adults, commonly referred to as those going through a "gray divorce," the psychological effects can be particularly profound. In Illinois, where divorce rates among individuals over 50...
Can you co-parent with a narcissist?
It may take time for some couples to establish a comfortable co-parenting relationship. The emotions from the divorce are still raw, and both parties are attempting to navigate the path from romantic partners to co-parents. But what if one of the co-parents is a...
Should you stay on social media during your divorce?
People interact on social media daily, so it’s just a part of life for many. While there’s not necessarily anything wrong with social media, it can lead to challenges if you’re going through a divorce. Some people in this position may opt to stay off social media,...
How do you tell your children you’re getting divorced?
Choosing to divorce is hard; telling your children is even harder. As parents, we want to protect our children from getting hurt, but we realize it's impossible. While you can't eliminate the sadness they'll feel when you tell them you're getting divorced, there are...
Do lengthy divorce proceedings cause psychological issues?
Divorce can be a challenging process for any family, but when proceedings drag on, the emotional toll can increase significantly. Understanding these effects is vital for families going through prolonged legal battles. Stress and anxiety in parents Lengthy divorce...
Breaking the news: 3 ways to tell your kids about the divorce
Divorce is hard. It disrupts families and creates anxiety and insecurity, especially for children. While it is a difficult conversation to have, telling your kids about the divorce is crucial. How you handle this conversation can significantly impact their coping with...
Who gets the family dog in a divorce?
Deciding who keeps the family dog during a divorce can be a difficult and emotional process. Understanding how the courts evaluate these situations can help divorcing couples better navigate the process and make informed decisions regarding their pets. Pets as marital...
Is it bad to refuse mediation in Illinois?
Mediation serves as a common method for resolving disputes, offering parties an opportunity to reach agreements outside of court. Mediation provides a structured environment where both sides can negotiate terms with the help of a neutral third party. The question...
Comparing collaborative divorce and mediation
When you face divorce in Illinois, understanding your options can help you choose the right path forward. Both collaborative divorce and mediation offer alternatives to traditional courtroom battles. These methods not only save time and money but also aim to reduce...